Cheer them on!
"It's in keeping with Nature to show our friends affection and to celebrate their advancement as if it were our very own. For if we don't do this, virtue, which is strengthened only by exercising our perceptions, will no longer endure in us."
Have you ever caught yourself feeling jealousy or selfishness when looking upon others successes? I hate to admit this, but this has happened often in my life. It's the toughest thing to overcome especially if we are struggling. Our brains sometime take us to the mentality of "if they win - I will lose." Their gain is my loss. Having compassion and empathy for other's successes is just like anything. We get better with practice. It's a muscle - once we are aware of the muscle and the exercises to strengthen it, then we slowly rejoice in other's accomplishments. Next time something great happens to your friend, colleague, or families life cheer on their success. This doesn't have to be out in the open. It could be a text message or just a nice thought. This might be difficult but your morality and integrity desperately need it.
“If you look to others for fulfillment, you will never be fulfilled. If your happiness depends on money, you will never be happy with yourself. Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the world belongs to you.”
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Jon Belt is a middle school teacher in Oklahoma City, and the host of the Teacher Tunnel Podcast.